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Post  delphi on Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:47 am

My question is
how do children grow up to be gay. I have two
daughters and they say they are gay, they are now
living with their partners. They were raised as girls.
One of the girls said because boys did not respect
her. The other says she just like girls. Therefore,
what went wrong.

confused

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Post  oldersister on Tue Feb 19, 2008 7:47 pm

Confused,

Regardless of your children's sexual preference, I wouldn't tell them it is wrong and I think you should change your mindset on that or it will damage your relationship with your children if it hasn't already.
Being gay is completely unrelated to your upbringing or parenting, that is what you need to understand. "What did I do wrong?" does not apply here.
Everyone has a different theory on why people are gay (abuse, biological, etc....) but in your case, asking why is not going to do you any good, asking how you can understand and build a healthy relationship with your children and accept & respect their lifestyle is going to make all the difference in the world.
I suggest you read
Straight Parents, Gay Children: Inspiring Families to Live Honestly and With Greater Understanding (Paperback)
by Robert A. Bernstein (Author)

and become more educated on this subject before your children don't want to have anything to do with you (this usually occurs later on especially when they adopt or have children).

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